‘I married you because you’re a Catholic and can’t divorce me’: And Other Wild Statements in Dating That Made the Person Run For the Hills

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    Posted by u/Carrera1107 2 days ago 2 What was that disgusting thing someone you were dating told you and it changed your image of them?
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    bullhorn_bigass · 2 days ago He relayed the story of how he had thrown a full milkshake out of a moving car at an old lady who was walking on the sidewalk, and hit
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    her full in the chest. He could barely get the story out, he was laughing so hard.
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    I thought this was something he had maybe done when he was in middle school and trying to show off for his friends that would have been bad
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    enough. No, he did this when he was 21.
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    lucida02 2 days ago edited 19 hr. ago Similar vein: he laughed his way through a story about how several of his "friends" cornered and beat up a guy at a restaurant for
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    heckling them from a table over (most likely telling them to calm or quiet down). The victim was apparently severely injured but didn't press charges. My date insisted that he
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    didn't participate in the brawl (I didn't believe him) and was genuinely surprised by my horror. When I broke up with him I told him it was because he lacked empathy.
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    The story above was particularly bad but there were others that told me not to trust him as a partner. He took it surprisingly well in the moment but later started espousing woman- hating rhetoric and
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    was dumb enough to post it on his public-facing social media. He's now married after having dated his now-wife for only a little over a year. I worry for her. *Edited incel
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    her. *Edited incel rhetoric to woman hating rhetoric.
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    russianflapjack. 2 days ago "Some things are better left to the imagination” after I undressed
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    inferache · 2 days ago Oh my God this is my worst nightmare I'm sorry you had to go through that
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    kenakuhi 2 days ago I hope you responded "you're right, have fun imagining" and dumped him.
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    Renjenbee 2 days ago My ex completely changed after we got married. When I asked him why he'd lied to me about who he was before, he literally said, "I didn't think you'd like me if you knew." straight. I was like, "Don't you think I kind of deserve to decide that for
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    myself? Now I just can't trust you at all." And he said, "but then you wouldn't have married me." Surprise Surprise, we got divorced.
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    segflt 2 days ago what an enormous waste of time and money
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    Candymostdandy. 2 days ago My ex hid his true nature from me very successfully for a few years, it was such an absolute mind when I discovered the extent of his deception as time went on. It has completely destroyed
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    my ability to trust. My therapist tries her best, but I'm no closer to being able to have a relationship again even after all this time.
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    usererroreverytime. 2 days ago I once asked my ex why he married me, when I would eventually find out who he really was. And although he was a compulsive, liar, for once he told the truth.
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    He said "because you're Catholic and you can't get a divorce". Unfortunately for him, my priest is the one who told me to get a divorce lol
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    Smiling_Mister_J 2 days ago "It wasn't a lie, really, it was just something I said so you'd like me." Once I realized that she didn't think lies counted if they were told to manipulate people, I was out.
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    ISwearIUsedToBeSmart. 2 days ago. edited 1 day ago Oh man. My freshman year of college I knew a guy who didn't think he was lying because when his girlfriend said, "I love you," he
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    said, "View too!" Because it only sounded like he said it back. So he wasn't actually lying, because what she heard was different from what he meant, right!? He was (unsurprisingly) a lying
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    sack of . I just hope his nards are caved in from any woman who ever listened to him and then reacted appropriately.
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    Quinn_Bee "i followed times but you never noticed me" "I love you" 2 days ago you a couple of "From now on, you're not allowed to speak to other men" All that from the same guy, from the same night, from the first and only date.
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    Think-Interest1676. 2 days ago I hope you made it home safely
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    MakoSashimi · 2 days ago During him breaking up with me and I'm sad "Don't be jealous of the woman I end up with. She will just be a toy."

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